The Heart Matters

For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, saith the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you an expected end. Then shall ye call upon me, and ye shall go and pray unto me, and I will hearken unto you. And ye shall seek me, and find [me], when ye shall search for me with all your heart. – Jeremiah 29: 11-13

This Great Recession going on in the world today has created, not only financial issues in families, but it has caused many emotional issues, too. As I look around; reading and listening to the news, and even noticing in my own life, it has gotten pretty depressing. It is a stressful situation.

It has taken its toll on many families. People are losing their jobs, their savings, their homes, and their future. I have noticed husbands and wives getting angry at each other with threats of divorce. I have been reading about people committing suicide over all of this stress. For what? What is the root cause? Is it money? I think it’s deeper than that.

This world has been chasing the love of material things for so many years. We have dedicated a lot of our time in trying to gain more ‘stuff’. It’s bad when we can’t just be happy with what we already have. We want more and we will do whatever it takes to get it. With this type of time and dedication, it becomes more of a ‘heart’ problem and this Great Recession is a great ‘heart attack‘.

No Heart

Our hearts are not where they are supposed to be. Our love and time should be given to the Lord. He should be our Number One. He gives us hope and a future, not material things. We need to seek Him first in our life. And when we do, everything else in our life will fall in place. It’s amazing how it all works.

Jesus has the answers. If you don’t know Him as your Lord and Savior, I would pray and ask Him to come into your life. Repent of the junk that you’ve done and start a new life with Him leading the way. Get a heart transplant!

A new heart also will I give you, and a new spirit will I put within you: and I will take away the stony heart out of your flesh, and I will give you an heart of flesh. – Ezekiel 36:26

A Half Heart

Another important thing I have learned is that we can’t serve the Lord half-heartedly. As Christians, we can’t just serve the Lord on specially designated days that we decide. We need to go all out and serve Him every day in everything we do.

We can’t just be a Christian at church, we need be and act like Christians wherever we are. And we can’t do our Christian duties out of obligation, but out of our love for God that is whole heartedly sincere. He deserves more than that!

We also can’t serve and use the Lord just when we need something, and then when He answers our prayers, we begin living the old life again. That is so wrong in so many ways. Think about it. Give Him your all in all circumstances.

A Whole Heart

This is what we need right here – a heart that is completely sold out to Jesus. We should live our life as though we are thankful that He died for us. Are you thankful that you don’t have to die and go to Hell? Are you thankful that you have the gift of eternal life because Jesus died on the cross for your sins? Well, are you showing it? Your heart should reflect it.

Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. – Matthew 22:37

The world’s heart seeks money to receive material things to make their future prosperous and plentiful. But, like in this Great Recession, it falls apart and people get hurt in the end. It just doesn’t work. The Lord’s answer to prosperity and a future is simple. He says, “Seek Him with ALL OF OUR HEART”. Let’s try it!

The heart matters.

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A Redneck Theology Lesson: The Race

On the road of life, we are all very similar to the cars that you see on the road today. We must drive on it every day. We will have ‘good’ trips and we will have ‘bad’ trips. The most important thing is where you are going when you reach the end of your journey. If you are saved and have given your life to Jesus, you are guaranteed eternal life with Him in Heaven. If you are lost today, you won’t receive this gift of eternal life, but it’s not too late ‘to get your car fixed’.

On the Christian road of life, we are in a race and we are the cars or trucks. Our goal is to get to the finish line to receive our prize. First thing we need to do ‘as cars or trucks’, is figure out what kind of vehicle we are. This is determined by what we think of ourselves, our personality, strength, our looks, etc.

Task 1: Pick a car or truck that best describes you.

1. If you are full of pride, you will probably pick something better than what you really are.

2. If you have low self esteem, you will pick something ‘less’.

3. In God’s eyes, we are all the same.

4. To God, it’s what’s on the inside that really counts.

Note: Create a visual in your mind of what kind of vehicle you are (the color, make, model, etc.). Just think about it for moment.

Task 2: Let’s discuss the parts that make up your car or truck.

1. Your motor – This is your heart. As Christians, we must keep our hearts pure and clean. Impurities in our heart will make our motor run sluggish.

2. The transmission – This is the part of you that puts you into motion and it’s controlled by how you think. It’s your ‘drive’. Your transmission has about 5 different gears:
・ Park – This is when you sit. Your car has everything it needs to run, but you choose to sit. Turn the key on; put it in Drive, and go!
・ Reverse – This is when you go backwards. The finish line is ahead of you – not behind you! If you’re constantly going back to sin, you’ll have a hard time running the race! When you ask Jesus to forgive you for your sins, they are forgiven. Leave them alone and go forward.
・ Neutral – Your motor is running but you’re not going anywhere! It’s like going to church, hearing the Word, and not applying it to your life. Stop sitting! Get up and go!
・ Drive – The best gear to be in. You are going forward to finish the race. It won’t be easy and watch out for sinful temptations. Satan wants to steer you off course. There will be mountains and hills to overcome in the race. These are obstacles that the Lord gives us and they will make us stronger. That’s why we have…
・ Four Wheel Drive – You rednecks will understand this. This gear is for climbing mountains. Using this gear is when you apply the Word of God and you use your faith in Him to overcome obstacles. You can use it to get out of ditches and valleys you may get into.

3. Starter – The starter sends the ‘spark’ that starts your car. This is the Holy Spirit living within us. You receive the Holy Spirit when you become saved.

4. Alternator – Represents a person reading the Bible and going to church. It restores and builds energy into the battery.

5. Battery – This is the life source of the car. When a person becomes saved, Jesus gives them a new battery. He replaces your old one with a new one that never dies. This battery symbolizes your salvation (eternal life). Have you ever heard of a Die Hard battery? Your new one is called a Die Never battery. I made that up.

6. Radiator – Represents the ‘living water’ that Jesus gives. It keeps our heart running smoothly.

7. Oil – Represents the blood of Christ. It keeps our motor (heart) running. It’s the new life as Christians and it will never need changing!

8. Key – This is the power and control of your life and of you. In a car, it’s what makes it happen. It all starts with the key. For a Christian, our key is Jesus.

Task 3: Here are some additional parts that make up your car. These relate to your body’s senses:

1. Tires – These are your hands and feet. As you are running down the road, the devil will throw nails in your path. These nails represent temptation. You have two choices. Recognize that the temptation is there and steer around it or roll over it and flatten your tires. This becomes sin and you have to park your car. You will then have to pray for forgiveness and Jesus will fix your flat tire. Road side service!

2. Gas Tank – This is your mouth, ears, and nose. If you allow ‘bad’ gas to enter your car, it goes straight to your heart (motor) and it won’t run right. You’ll start backfiring out of your tail pipe and start running sluggish. If you allow ‘good’ gas to enter, just like high octane fuel, you’ll run a lot better and smoother.

3. Windshield and Glass Windows – These represent your eyes. If your windshield is dirty, you can’t see where you are going. You’ll end up in a ditch and wreck your car. Be careful of what you look at and keep your windshield clean.

Task 4: What is the objective? What’s the race all about?

“Wherefore seeing we also are compassed about with so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which doth so easily beset [us], and let us run with patience the race that is set before us,” – Hebrews 12:1

To put it simpler:

1) We are in a race – prepare for it!
・ As Christians, we are in a race. This race is our Christian walk and how we live our lives. In NASCAR, when they prepare for a race, they work hard to build endurance and strength into their car. We do this by praying, having Christian fellowship, and by going to church. This strengthens us as believers.
・ The NASCAR folks remove any excess weight that slows their car down. In a Christian life, we must remove anything that keeps us from living for Jesus; the friends we choose, the activities we’re involved in, and the junk we allow into our minds and bodies.

2) The goal is reaching the finish line and receiving the prize.
・ This is our heavenly reward. I Corinthians 9: 24 says, “Know ye not that they which run in a race run all, but one receiveth the prize? So run, that ye may obtain.”

3) The prize is the crown of eternal life.
・ I Corinthians 9: 25 says, “And every man that striveth for the mastery is temperate in all things. Now they [do it] to obtain a corruptible crown; but we an incorruptible.”

Note (summary): We are in a race to reach the finish line. When we reach the end, we will receive the crown of life that Jesus has promised us. But, be aware of the enemy.

4) The enemy
・ Our enemy is Satan. He is there on race day. He is there to make you stumble. He puts temptations in your way to cause you to sin. He doesn’t want you in the race at all! He throws the nails, oil slicks, clouds the windshield with dirt, and will give you ‘bad’ gas. If he can’t take you out of the race, he’ll try slowing you down or cause you to run off the road.
・ For the cars on the side line (the people that don’t know Jesus as Lord and Savior), he clouds their eyes with sin and keeps them from entering the race. We, as Christians, need to be careful of how we run the race. We are being watched and we need to be ready and willing to ‘jump start’ the cars on the side line. Use what the Lord has given you to ‘jump start’ the lost folks around you and get them into the race.

5) The purpose, the plan, and the prize (Repeat)
・ The purpose – Drive straight on the path of life to the finish line and receive the prize.
・ The plan – Build your car for endurance and strength by focusing on Jesus, reading the Bible, and going to church. Start hanging out with Christian friends.
・ The prize – When your race is over, you will receive a crown of eternal life.

Task 5: Race Day – Are You In It?

If you are saved, your race has already begun. Keep your cars running strong so that you can endure the race.

1. Don’t allow your eyes (windshield) to become dirty with sin. The devil wants to steer you off the road and crash.

2. Don’t use bad gas! Use only ‘high octane’ that the Lord gives. Stay in church, read the Bible and stay away from junk.

3. Keep your tires checked! Where are your hands and feet going? Look out for the nails (the temptation) that the devil throws in front of you. Drive around it or your tires will become flat. Praise God for road side service! Your sins will be forgiven.

If you are lost and don’t know Jesus, you are basically a car on the side lines. You may be running, but you’re not in the race! You are constantly searching for parts to keep yourself going. Eventually your car will die and it will be sent to the crusher. Come to Jesus and receive a Die Never battery. Allow Jesus to work in your life and make you into the car He wants you to be.

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Having a ‘BEE’ Attitude

(The Beatitudes of Jesus – Matthew 5: 3 – 10)

Somewhere between the 1960’s and 1970’s, there was a famous boxer. His name was Mohammed Ali. He had a catchphrase that was popular and many people caught on to it. In interviews on TV, he would say, “I float like a butterfly and sting like a bee…” It’s kind of silly, but you older folks probably remember it. I was just a little baby during those years and for some reason it popped into my head. After I thought of it for awhile, a new topic sprung up…the bee.

The bee is one of God’s unique little creatures that deserve a little looking into. I believe God places creatures and animals here for us to learn from. We can study their behaviors and discover or rediscover how we are supposed to live.

When you look at a bee, you’ll notice they live in colonies (or families) and they work together to support their queen. This is very similar to how we, as Christians, should be by supporting our church. We should all work together and grow the colony, which is the church.

Have you ever heard the saying “busy as a bee”? If you’ve ever noticed a colony of bees, you’ll see that bees are constantly moving. They are not sitting still. They are either buzzing around getting nectar and pollen or they are feeding the queen and the younger bees. Part of our jobs as Christians should be helping the youth, the congregation, the pastor, and the church. Just keep moving!

One of the important roles of a bee is that they distribute pollen. Pollination is necessary for the reproduction of seed plants. To put it simpler, they help plants to grow. From a Christian standpoint, pollen is like the Word of God. If we share the Gospel with others, people will get saved and a new life will begin to grow.

Now that I have you thinking like a bee, let’s get ‘bee’ attitudes. If you have your Bibles, let’s read:

Matthew 5:3-10

Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven. Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted. Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth. Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled. Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy. Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God. Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God. Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness’ sake: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

As you have already guessed, we just read the Sermon on the Mount. The verses are known as The Beatitudes. I’m sure you’ve read them before, but let’s talk about them and learn how they relate to our Christian life.

Based on what I’ve studied, the Sermon on the Mount was the first sermon Jesus gave to his disciples and the people that gathered. It is only found in the book of Matthew. However, there is a similar sermon found in the 6^th chapter of Luke. It’s called the Sermon on the Plain.

To me, what makes this sermon so unique is that Jesus preaches on how a Christian should be. He could’ve spoken about sin and the consequences of sin. He could’ve spoken about Hell, fire and damnation, or on how bad the world is, but His first sermon and His first main concern was about His people.

It’s like He wanted to make sure His people were living right and had the right ‘attitude’ in their Christian walk.

Let’s take a look:

Blessed are the poor in spirit: for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.

His first point didn’t mean that in order to go to Heaven you had to be financially broke. It doesn’t mean that wealthy people can’t go to Heaven. When a Christian is poor in spirit, it means that they are to be humble. When a person is humble, they realize that all of their gifts and blessings come from God. When you’re poor in spirit, you will become completely empty and open to the Word of God. Being humble brings you inner peace and allows you to do the will of God. Being humble allows you to help others – no matter who they are.

The opposite of being humble is to be full of pride. Pride is a bad thing to have. Having pride makes you miserable. Pride is when you put yourself before others – it’s all about you. Jesus wasn’t like that. He always thought of others. Pride also brings anger and seeks revenge when you get offended.

The Lord can remove pride from your heart and make you humble. This can be a painful process, especially when He removes things from your life that causes the pride. This can be material things such as your house, car, money, etc.

Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.

The act of mourning is usually related to grieving when a loved one dies. The Lord can provide comfort during those times of loss. I believe this verse means more than that. If we are humble and we appreciate the fact that all of our gifts and blessings come from God, we will grow in love and gratitude for Jesus Christ our Savior. This will produce mourning and regret over our own sins and the sins of this world. We will know that we have hurt the One who has been so good to us – and that’s Jesus Christ.

Mourning in this verse would be a blessing because mourning over sin creates in us a desire to improve ourselves and to do what is right! It will also make us think of others that are lost and the need of Jesus in their life. It will make us reach out to them.

Blessed are the meek: for they shall inherit the earth.

The word meek means to be gentle and kind. This relates to how we treat others. This word is similar to being humble and deals with our relationship with people and how we serve our Lord. We shouldn’t be angry, but instead we should be happy and always try to build up one another by encouraging each other and showing love. We should also be obedient to the Lord. If you have a calling in your life, you should do it without hesitation. One of the ways we are blessed by being meek is from the peace that we will have by doing so.

Blessed are they which do hunger and thirst after righteousness: for they shall be filled.

As Christians, we should hunger and thirst for righteousness. Being righteous to me means living a life that is pleasing to God. We should live our life by The Book, the Word of God. Our desire should be to live like Jesus and to be like Him. In every situation of life, we should ask, “What would Jesus do?”

We should go to church, read our Bibles, pray daily, and commit ourselves to living the life that Jesus intended for us to live. We all know that we aren’t perfect, but we should desire to be perfect, just like Jesus.

Blessed are the merciful: for they shall obtain mercy.

To be merciful means we should show mercy. Mercy to our neighbors, people we don’t know, our family members, our church family, our friends, and even our enemies. We should show love, compassion, and forgiveness towards everyone because it will bring peace into our relationships.

In the Lord’s Prayer we say:

Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.

As we are merciful to others, so our Heavenly Father will be merciful with us!

Here are some ways to be merciful to your neighbor:

1) Help The Needy

If you know someone that’s hungry, thirsty, and homeless, we should help.

2) Visit The Sick

If you know people that are sick, especially people you are close to or even people that haven’t been in church for a while. Call them up or give them a visit. Find out how they are doing and see how you can help.

3) Be A Witness

If you know people that are lost, give them direction. I mean this in a spiritual sense. People need to know about Jesus. Invite them to church and tell them about our Lord and Savior.

If you know of Christian people that aren’t living right, help them find their way back. Talk to them and be a spiritual adviser.

4) Forgive People

Don’t go around holding grudges against people. Forgive them because God says so in the Bible. It tells me that if I don’t show forgiveness, He won’t forgive me of my sins.

Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God.

To be pure of heart means to be free of all selfish intentions and self-seeking desires. Has anyone ever done something for someone without expecting anything in return? This is an act of pure love. That’s what this verse is talking about. This is how we should be.

When you use the gifts the Lord has given you for others, don’t use them to make yourself look good or to get appreciation. Use them as though you were using them for the Lord. That’s being pure in heart.

Blessed are the peacemakers: for they shall be called the children of God.

Peacemakers not only live peaceful lives, but they also try to bring peace to others. You cannot give peace until you have peace within yourself.

The devil tries so hard to ‘break the peace’. He causes turmoil in the family, the church, and in the country. He fills our life with so much ‘junk’ and things we don’t need that we are overwhelmed and can’t seem to rest. The Lord wants us to have peace and He wants us to live a simple life. The world wants us to ‘get more stuff’ that never really satisfies us. The only thing we really need is a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. That’s true peace. When we are finally at peace within ourselves, we will be able to share this peace with others.

Blessed are they which are persecuted for righteousness’ sake: for theirs is the kingdom of Heaven.

Jesus said many times that those who follow Him will be persecuted.

John 15:20 – 21 says, “If they persecute me, they will persecute you.”

The disciples (Stephen, Peter and Paul), nearly all of the Apostles, and many Christians in the Roman era suffered for Christ’s sake. We may not suffer as greatly as they did, but we are or have been persecuted to some degree.

Christian teenagers may have it bad, too. There are a lot of pressures that kids face these days and they have to make a choice. Do I follow the Lord or give in to the pressure? Many times they will be made fun of or they will be ‘pushed out the pack’ for following the will of the Lord. To me, that’s a form of persecution. But the Lord promised those that suffer for his sake will be rewarded with the Kingdom of Heaven! And that’s good enough for me.

If you’re a Christian, and have not been living your life based on Matthew 5: 3 – 10, you just received an attitude adjustment: a bee attitude. Follow the principles that Jesus gave us in His Sermon on the Mount and apply it to your life. If you follow them, you will be blessed. With our new attitude, we should be ‘busy as bees’ because there’s a lot of work to do. We should be reaching out to others, spreading the Gospel, and growing the church just like bees growing their colonies.

And one more thing ……….’bee’ blessed!

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A Living Sacrifice?

I beseech you therefore, brethren, by the mercies of God, that ye present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service. – Romans 12: 1

In the Old Testament, you read of people making sacrifices to God. It was a requirement according to the Old Covenant for the forgiveness of people’s sins and was a way for them to show their gratitude and reverence to God. Basically, a person would bring their approved animal and sacrifice it to Him and be forgiven. I think over time it became just a thing for them to do and wasn’t done with complete sincerity from their heart. I am thankful today that we no longer have to make animal sacrifices like they did in the old days. How about you? When God sent His Son to die for us, it covered it all. Amen?

When you read the verse above from the book of Romans, it tells us to present ourselves (our bodies) as a living sacrifice to God; to be holy and acceptable. The purpose is not to obtain forgiveness of our sins, because Jesus took care of that already, but as an act of reasonable service as a way of worship and reverence to Him. How do we do that? We may be able to learn a little something from our ancestors.

Give Him Your Best
The old guys from long ago had to offer their best animals to sacrifice. No blemishes. No diseased. No cripples. They had to select their best from the best to offer to God.

We should be willing to do the same. Any time we step up to do anything for God, we should offer our best. We shouldn’t do it as if it were a burden, but we should do it from the heart. We should want to please God because of who He is and do it because we love Him.

Those talents you’ve been holding onto were given to you by God for His glory, so why aren’t you using them? Why do you pass up opportunities to be used by God by sitting still? And if you are in a ministry, why has it become a burden to you to the point that you dread doing it? I believe we have lost the real focus.

God wants our best and wants us to use what we have to glorify Him.

Live According To His Word

When the ancients made their sacrifices, they did it by the book. They followed the steps and guidelines required to make their sacrifice acceptable to God.

We have guidelines to go by, too. The Bible gives us ways to improve our lives and to help us become more righteous in God’s eyes. Yes, it can be a struggle at times. God knows we aren’t perfect, but He at least wants us to try. He has given us His Word as a tool to use in achieving His purpose in our life. Why aren’t we using it?

I think people see the Bible as a rule book to make our lives miserable. They look at the Bible as some kind of boring outdated history book that gets used to make some cool Christmas and Easter movies. But, if we could just move past that wrong way of thinking, we would see how much He loves us by giving us the help we need that can only be found in His Word. The key here is using it and living by it.

Leave It At The Altar
After their sacrifices were made, the ancients left it at the alter to be consumed by fire.

People today have a lot of pride. Some more than others. Even though we take the steps of sacrificing ourselves to God, we tend to put a little self into it. Yes, we may be doing the ‘Jesus’ thing, but we expect the ‘pat on the back’ when we are done. And if no one is there to see us do it or doesn’t respond the way we expect them to, we get discouraged and eventually stop doing what we are supposed to do. Our motive would be created by selfish ambition.

As in the days of old, making a sacrifice at the altar required leaving it there. We are not supposed to look back and check on it. That thing we do for God should totally be for Him. When and if He is pleased with it, He’ll consume it with fire and the lives around the flame just might get a little warmth. Know what I’m saying?

As simple as it all may sound, I believe that is what God expects from us. He wants us to be a living sacrifice with a ‘souled out’ heart for Him; to use our bodies to glorify Him in everything we do and say and to use what He has already given us to do it.

Meet you at the altar? Let’s go.

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Nobody Wants To Be A Prune

And there followed him a certain young man, having a linen cloth cast about [his] naked [body]; and the young men laid hold on him: And he left the linen cloth, and fled from them naked. – Mark 14: 51, 52

I read this last night and it hit me as very strange. It’s from the scriptures from the Book of Mark that tells about Jesus being betrayed by Judas and His arrest in Gethsemane. We all know it, right? The same scene and details are also recorded in Matthew, Luke, and John. The difference in Mark’s version is this quick two-verse information about this young man being captured and how he escapes. The young joker worms his way out of his clothes and takes off running. Naked! Isn’t that weird? I’ll admit. I laughed when I read this part.

The question I have is, “Why was this even in there? Why is this even important to know?” It doesn’t seem to have any spiritual significance and it’s the only time it’s even mentioned. So, what’s up with that? It reminded me of an old song from the 70’s called The Streak by Ray Stevens. And then it hit me. It made me laugh.

According to Science, we have roughly eight primary emotions. Some studies show more than eight, but I like keeping it simple. Here‘s what I found:

Joy > Sadness
Trust > Disgust
Fear > Anger
Surprise > Anticipation

The ones on the left are positive emotions with it’s opposite emotion on the right. Laughing would fall under the ‘joy’ category. God gave us these emotions and would like for us to use them in a positive way. Keep in mind, ‘Fear > Anger’ is one of those tricky emotions and can be used in a healthy positive way when it comes to reverence to God and hating sin.

I believe ‘joy’ is a very important emotion that God wants us to use every day. It mentions in the Bible that there should be joy in our salvation. Basically, we should be happy; laughing, smiling, and having a good ol’ time. I also believe that God puts verses in the Bible to give us a quick laugh. That sounds odd, doesn’t it? But, I believe He does. Many of us are afraid to laugh sometimes because of fear of mocking God’s Word. We may think we have to be serious all the time. But I have learned that laughing in church is OK. Preachers telling jokes during sermons is actually cool. I believe God is all about that. I understand there is a time to be serious, but it doesn’t have to be serious all the time. We need to lighten up a little. If we’re not laughing, we begin looking like dried up prunes. From what I’ve learned from eating prunes is that it works your bowels and keeps you ‘sitting‘. That’s a bathroom joke in case you didn’t know. Since we are to be a light in the world, what would God want them to see in us?

I found some more verses from the Bible that sparked a smile. Check this out:

[As] a jewel of gold in a swine’s snout, [so is] a fair woman which is without discretion. – Proverbs 11: 22

Imagine that! Try comparing your wife to a pig with a nose ring. You might get slapped or body-slammed. Or how about this one?:

And I will stretch over Jerusalem the line of Samaria, and the plummet of the house of Ahab: and I will wipe Jerusalem as [a man] wipeth a dish, wiping [it], and turning [it] upside down. – 2 Kings 21: 13

A man washing dishes? Some ladies might get a kick out of reading this, especially knowing that their husband has never offered to wash dishes before. Listen to this one:

Then I turned, and lifted up mine eyes, and looked, and behold a flying roll. – Zechariah 5: 1

Flying biscuits? Couldn’t God have picked something else to be flying around? Why a biscuit? Now that’s funny!
What could be learned from all of this? It could be the simple fact that it’s OK to laugh and have a good time in the Lord. He’s cool with that! If people were to see us laugh sometimes, maybe someone would want that joy in their life, too. Laughter is good medicine – spiritually, too. Maybe we should practice it and look for the humor that God shares with us.

Nobody wants to be a prune. Right?

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Raisin’ Kids – Straight Off The Vine

Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it. – Proverbs 22: 6

Being a parent has been a tough job for me, but it has also been very rewarding. I love my kids, no doubt! I consider them to be blessings to me straight from God above, even though sometimes they get on my nerves. I also give them credit for most of my hair loss through the years. They have done some stupid stuff that left me thinking, “Where did they learn this junk from?” But, on a positive note, they have done some great things that has made me very proud of them and of my role as their Dad.

Parenting is one of those things you just jump into and learn through trial and error. You will make some mistakes, but you will also create some positive results. You could read all the self-help parenting books in the world, but you will soon realize that these kids that you helped give birth to have minds of their own. You just never know the results of your parenting until after they are all grown up and on their own. Right?

As a Christian parent, you want to teach them Biblical values. I mean, you make it a point to take them to church, pray with them, and share with them some knowledge from God’s Word on various topics that relate to their life. I can only assume that I did the right thing because my kids are saved because they prayed for forgiveness of their sins and asked Jesus to come into their life. That’s good! But, I have realized that just because they are Christians, they may not necessarily act like it sometimes. Am I to blame? Not hardly!

Here’s the deal. As teenagers, they are old enough to make their own decisions in life. Even though I share Biblical knowledge with them, it doesn’t mean they will apply it. And even though I try to lead them by being an example of Jesus in my walk, it doesn’t mean that they will take the same route. They have a choice. Now, as long as they are living in my house, they will follow my rules that God has given us as a family and I will enforce it with discipline. But, how they act beyond that is really up to them. I would only hope that they would make wise decisions.

I guess that’s the problem we have as parents living for the Lord. Yes, we can train them in the way they should go, but the choice is left up to the young adult to stay in it. The verse from Proverbs above mentions that ‘when he is old, he will not depart from it.’ Why old? Maybe God knows that kids will make bad choices and take the wrong roads in life. They may have a straight path of living right before them, but maybe God knows that some will take the rough road and go around it.

I am thankful that God assures us that they will one day get back on track and it may be when they get older. There will come a time when our rebellious kids will realize that they got off the path that we, as parents, shared with them many years ago. One day they will wake up and remember what we taught them and begin following Jesus again.
Now that I look back on my own personal life, I can see that this is true. I wasn’t always a Jesus Freak like I am today, even though I knew better. I just decided to take the longer route to get there. I am just thankful for God’s protection on me while I was detached from the Vine.

This is a hope message for you Christian parents out there. Yes, it may look like your kids are doing totally the opposite of how you raised them. Just know that God has His eyes on them. Continue to pray for them and leave the rest to Him. They will get back on the right path eventually.

God’s Word tells us so.

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